We run around looking for who we are, things to do, or believe. We force ourselves to take positions on views, plunge further into the quagmire (digidy) of life forgetting the important things life has to offer, sometimes ignoring the need for discipline, or being too disciplined, ignoring the need for restraint, or being too restrained.
Just because we want something, doesn’t mean that it is something we should pursue, and just because we don’t want something doesn’t mean it is something we should try avoid, sometimes some thing’s happen or are around because they are in existence, this doesn’t mean we have to either love things or hate things, but rather except things as they are, and move on! No point getting upset or anything else just because we like or dislike something, or think something is bad just because we don’t like it.
If you want freedom from suffering, running away from what we think is suffering wont help, nor will grasping onto what we see as not stressful, in the end nothing is unchanging, belonging to a self, or not dukkha.
At the end of the day I may be right, I may be wrong, but I share this hoping I am one, the other, both, or neither.