We are born with nothing, we die not able to take anything with us, so why act like anything is ours to do with in-between birth and death?
If you are ruminating on something, the issue is with the rumination nowhere else.
look for the fallacies in your own thinking. This only improves logical soundness, not guarantee that it is correct, however it is a step in the direction of seeing truth.
If your friends say only things that please you, they are sycophants, not friends!
If you expect your friends to say only things that please you, you are a retard, not a friend!
To say something meaningful sometimes means it is pleasing and sometimes means it is hard to hear.
Thinking you know someone when you don't is like staring in the mirror and not realising it is a reflection.
You only sacrifice when you only have a hope and no reward guaranteed. Unfortunately this can lead to resentment.
When people work out actions speak loader than anything else about themselves. Then they will know every reason under the sun doesn't stop the fact that their actions have consequences, including heedless ones.
"When you "beat about the bush" make sure it links to the chase, otherwise when you "cut to the chase" you will be incoherent."
Having something to say doesn't mean you say it
This may seam a little self-indulgent, however, I may sometimes say something of use.
When you think you know someone, you probably only know their unfulfilled needs.
A word to the wise is never needed, if it was they wouldn't be wise!
So, if they are told the same thing twice, and do it again they certainly don't listen!
Today was very much about nostalgic fear - recollecting comfortable times with a knowing the present is certainly full of anxiety due to sudden change - is something interesting to experience.
it is surprising how easy it is to not care, but less surprising how stupid you feel for caring at the wrong time.